Showing posts with label casual sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label casual sex. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

The Saga Continues. . .

So the long overdue YouTube video's on (safe) same sex practices are up. Do Check those out! They were to long to put up on the Myspace page so you'll have to go directly to the YouTube channel to check them out. The YouTube is located here at the bottom of this blog page. . .

Anywho i want to get back to the topic of the Pussy Liquor issue. So when it comes to these girls and women do we even owe them the decency of cramming them in a box or category. From what I'm hearing if a girl only kisses girls and likes it when inebriated she's no lez, which i strongly support. However if she has a boyfriend she is cheating. To swap bodily fluids with anyone is a definite sign of infidelity. So yes ladies when you make out with a woman it does count.As far as what the boyfriend thinks. . .eh who cares? He should just be informed that his woman is a cheater whether shes making out with a dude or dudette.

As far as hooking up with someone in a bar or club whose smashed out of their mind. Dr. Feel Good says it's really not worth it. Who wants to go through the trouble of explaining to someone how you met them when they couldn't even remember leaving the house that night. At least with a woman who is sober it's much easier to tell how truly screwed up she is from first chat. Little mystery there.

While i don't believe everyone can be gay, I do think that everyone is entitled to one bisexual encounter "off the records." Alot of people believe that one time doesn't count, I'm a little tossed up on the topic, but variety is the spice of life. So it's hard to write something off that you've never tried. I'm going to rip this topic apart in the next podcast so tune in to that one.

I must say before i go, that i generally do not dig these bi-curious skanks infiltrating our night clubs and bars with their confusion and nonchalant attitudes toward the way we live and party. Don't pull that one night shizz on me! It's this kind of behavior and person that causes so much disdain for the bisexual community. No one wants to deal with the confusion!

Saturday, October 11, 2008

So it was written. . . (my response to an OURCHART blog)

i love this sexual re-awakening that blogging can be responsible for. I've been trying to raise awareness on my podcast, and i want to dive deeper (excuse the pun ;)) in the land of sexual exploration. What some deem as extreme sex acts,other deem to be well just fucking. But how does one make their partner comfortable enough to explore the land last travelled? It's good to know that San Fransisco is a melting pot of sexual practices. Here in New York it seems the working woman gets her rock off by making it to her meetings and emailing her co-Hort's via blackberry message. Wanna trade places?

I just have this issue with some women being afraid to open up sexually, for fear of coming off as submissive, or "less-lesbian". I mean if you were any more lesbian you'd be writing this blog instead of reading it. I think ill take the next couple of weeks to completely engage in all kinds of demeaning, objectifying sex talk, ;cuz let's face it there's a lot of folks who wonder about our sex and frankly I'm only concerned with the ones, who will eventually participate in the lesbian sex. So here's to hoping for a season of bedding bi-curious chicks, and lesbian thrill seekers. Come at your own risk!

Monday, August 11, 2008

The Booty Call, Does it Live On?

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Is there really some booty call ettiquette? Some unwritten laws in the act of meaningless casual sex? Are we still having meaningless casual sex? While browsing some myspace stuff I found this booty call agreemnent. I do think it's hilarious but I must say it makes being single look frightening. a Couple of years ago if you liked someone you at least pretending you had some kind of romantic future.


Now I feel like real life has turned into an episode of The L Word, with some crazying woman desperately in need of shane's affection. I wonder do we lesbians share the same rules about casual sex? Aren't our "Booty CAlls" even intimate? Or has love, and great sex dulled my ability to appreciate the importance of a midnight romp in the sack? Generally, I like to believe that lesbians are creatures of love and habit, find their counterpart and settling in together.


But than. . .Look at AlphaBette. She loves these commited relationships, but than her groins start to tingle and that lesbian libido starts malfunctioning and whaddayakno shes boinking the carpenter, banging the girl from the bar, and doing Tina in an elevator? Sigh. . . Maybe the infamous booty call isn't so bad. We've all had them, no? . . .Just keep it safe ladies, there's a lot of unwanted visitors who'd be glad to stick around if you dont protect yourselves!
Don't know how to protect yourself? or where to get protection from? Leave me an anonymous comment here and i'll respond to your questions!


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